Please!
I have struggled with whether or not to write this article, knowing that some people will be offended. Sorry, it’s time someone said something about the value and virtue of modesty.
First, let me say that the men I know do not want to see your cleavage. It isn’t because they are “dirty old men”. It isn’t because they don’t appreciate beautiful women. Men prefer to look at you as a person, and revealing your bare breasts is distracting.
Sex is used to sell everything from automobiles to groceries. Our society has been so desensitized by the barrage of sex that an entire generation has lost its modesty. Pornography is a multi-billion dollar industry. Even “conservative” Fox News female anchors have bought in to the idea that low-cut dresses are appropriate. Facebook is filled with “selfies” of women flaunting their sexuality. PLEASE stop it!
The men I know want to love you like a sister. We appreciate you for who you are. We don’t want a “sneak peak”.
You are better than that.
***Gordon Howie is an author and CEO of Life and Liberty Media***
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To me, your article would have been more effective had you not included the picture of the voluptuous woman and her very large breasts. It just gave some yet another opportunity to gaze and let their minds wander to the wrong places.
An added observation, even the women at the Weather Channel also dress provocatively; ironic, how in this supposed age of women resisting the sex object image, networks mandate sexist weight & wardrobe rules.One year, at holiday time a network received irate phone calls from men during a talk show because the poinsettia plants blocked the view of the female anchors’ legs behind the table–and the plants were MOVED. Just ridiculous!
THANK YOU, Gordon!! Nice to hear this from a decent, intelligent GUY…when ladies such as myself express the same thoughts & advise other women to dress more modestly & respectfully, we get laughed at. A sad sign of the times. There is a huge difference between being proud of one’s body & curves, and just being exhibitionist about it. To me, dressing more sensibly & modestly shows respect for others and for myself. Even back in my younger leaner days, I felt the same. We were RAISED & TAUGHT to keep a sense of modesty and respect. I hope your article changes at least one lady’s mind about what decent gentlemen really think!
I agree with you Gordon 100%! It is amazing to me how people who are supposed to be professional have taken to the cleavage outfits that never would have been acceptable in a business environment. If that’s what it takes for the woman to “sell” or “promote” herself maybe there’s less upstairs that can possible impress people? Just asking.