A friend recently confided that he “Prays God would let him die.”

It was a profound confession which left me thinking for days.  I now know what I WISH I had said to him…

… “Let me help you die.”

Allow me to explain.

  This friend makes the assertion that he “has nothing to live for”.  He has lost his wife, his children and grandchildren.  They haven’t just left, they take every opportunity to express their hatred for him.  He is completely alone.  No one calls him and he is left to ‘celebrate’ special occasions on his own.  The emotional pain is nearly too much for him to bear.  The only ‘way out’ for him appears to be the end to his miserable life.  He has it partly right.

Ending his life would end his pain.  That doesn’t, however, require the kind of death he is praying for.  Their is another kind of death that takes away pain and replaces it with joy.  It removes hopelessness and brings purpose.  The phrase in Christian circles is “dying to self”.  A complete surrender to Christ and his will is what I am suggesting for my friend.  It isn’t easy, but ultimately, it is the only solution for him.  He will either “live” in his unbearable pain or he will die to self, in which case he will find new life and purpose.

Jesus said, “whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.” Mathew 16:25

If you are looking for a way to escape the emotional pain of this life…

…Let me help you.

***Gordon Howie is an author and CEO of Life and Liberty Media***

     “It’s not about right or left, it’s about Right or Wrong.”

 

 

 

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